What Do You Have Against Peace and Love?

“Sometimes people are just jerks.”  These are the not so deep or overly-thought out words that I said to my kids on Sunday.  It’s simple, but true.  “Sometimes people do mean things for no good reason.”  In hind-sight, I’m not sure what a good reason for being mean is...I said this because when we got … Continue reading What Do You Have Against Peace and Love?

Does Counseling Work?

There are two clocks in his office.  Neither one works.  One is missing a hand and the other is stuck on 3:00.  I'm watching him type on his computer, wondering what time it is, wishing I wasn't so hungry, and watching William wonder why he's here.  I'm kind of wondering the same thing.After going back and forth between … Continue reading Does Counseling Work?

Would This Happen If My Child Was White?

One thing that I have learned is that when you adopt transracially, it's going to be different.  There are things that I have learned about being black and things that I've learned about being the mother of a black child.  I've learned that even the most well intentioned person will make a prejudiced statement and that there … Continue reading Would This Happen If My Child Was White?