Three years ago, today, on May 9, 2008, our adoption of William and Antwan was finalized. They came to live with us on February 15th, but, on this day, it was made official and legal! It was a special, monumental day. And, at the same time, it was like any other day when you have … Continue reading Challenges and Joys of Adoption Finalization
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Teaching Moments: What My Kids Have Taught Me
Like many parents, I thought I was pretty smart when I became a mom. But everyday, my three children teach me even more. Either I wasn't that smart at the beginning or I'm really, really smart now. These are my life lessons from my 8-year-old, William. 1. A high five is appropriate in almost any situation. … Continue reading Teaching Moments: What My Kids Have Taught Me
Why We Rescued a Bullied Beta Fish
The other day, I was in the store with the babies and we stopped to look at the fish. I was looking at the Betas and I noticed that in one container, there were 2 of them. The first rule of Betas is that you can't put them together or they will kill each other. One of … Continue reading Why We Rescued a Bullied Beta Fish
Navigating Adoption: The Impact of Labels on Identity
A few weeks ago, at the doctor's office, we were discussing the fact that William hadn't gained any weight. She commented that maybe the "real" mom was thin. I was so focused on answering the question and taking the super-mature opportunity to say that she was actually over-weight, that it didn't register right away. I Am … Continue reading Navigating Adoption: The Impact of Labels on Identity
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