So, last week, I got a voicemail from Patrick's case worker. She was wondering about setting up a December visit. Then, she said that Patrick told her that after this visit, he would decide if he wanted to be adopted. Immediately, a few questions come to mind. The first, of course, was "Wait, what???" We had considered the … Continue reading The 6Parkers?
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Was The Floor Thirsty?
Parenting is definitely a learning process. Some days I feel like I've got it all figured out. Some days I feel like I've got a lot to learn. Most days, it's a mixture of both.But, today, I learned why I should've resisted the temptation to hit the snooze button when I knew those kids of mine … Continue reading Was The Floor Thirsty?
How much does the first year affect a child?
She was a good, sweet baby. As exhausted as I was, I was still aware of how low-maintenance she was. She didn't cry much, only when hungry or tired. But, she smiled, she smiled a lot. For the first year of her life, her future was unclear. She was being transported to visitations with her … Continue reading How much does the first year affect a child?
Our Journey to Parenting: The DragonCon Experience
After years of going to Dragoncon, this one in 2008, was going to be very different. Because we were getting ready for our first DragonCon with kids. We were focused on getting the boys ready and figuring out how we were going to afford the trip at all, with two new sons. We couldn't even begin … Continue reading Our Journey to Parenting: The DragonCon Experience
Common Misconceptions About Adoptive Families
Perception is an interesting thing. I live my days with three children that are so much mine, in my heart, that I practically have memories giving birth to them. I know I didn't, though. No need to be concerned for my grasp on reality. But the point is that I don't dwell on the fact … Continue reading Common Misconceptions About Adoptive Families
Challenges and Joys of Adoption Finalization
Three years ago, today, on May 9, 2008, our adoption of William and Antwan was finalized. They came to live with us on February 15th, but, on this day, it was made official and legal! It was a special, monumental day. And, at the same time, it was like any other day when you have … Continue reading Challenges and Joys of Adoption Finalization
Why We Rescued a Bullied Beta Fish
The other day, I was in the store with the babies and we stopped to look at the fish. I was looking at the Betas and I noticed that in one container, there were 2 of them. The first rule of Betas is that you can't put them together or they will kill each other. One of … Continue reading Why We Rescued a Bullied Beta Fish
Adopting Our Daughter
Adopting our baby girl from foster care was such an amazing thing but the experience leading up to it was nothing short of traumatic. Life was starting to settle down, a little, after finalizing the adoption of our sons. It was hard to keep up with two boys, but it was getting easier. I was … Continue reading Adopting Our Daughter
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